When and where are munches/socials? We will be meet the 2nd Friday of every month  For specifics, click here. 

You must be age 21 or over to attend. If it is your first munch with us, make sure to check in so we can get your email address.

Who attends? They usually draw about 20 to 40 people interested in meeting others in the lifestyle. It's okay to either come alone or with a guest. Many who attend are single, and many came by themselves the first time. Those who are new are usually introduced to others, and we do all we can to make you feel welcome. We find that such "vanilla" settings help newcomers feel safe. If you are in the scene and have vanilla guests who are scene friendly, of course you can bring them with you.

What should I wear? Dress is everyday casual streetwear. It is okay to wear collars and black clothing if that is your preference to appear in public in such a manner. Sometimes we go to scene friendly venues or have a private room in a restaurant. So, scene clothing - as long as it is not "revealing" is usually okay, but please keep it to a minimum. We are in public places.

What happens at a munch/social? These are social events. Not play events. No "play" such as spanking or anything overtly sexual will be allowed. You will not be forced to do anything, so fear not!

Must I RSVP? No, you do not need to RSVP.